Consideration

So it was my birthday yesterday. Instead of leaving us alone in peace. He decided to sms ask if he could visit today which was a holiday.

Well.

#1 I wished he was more sensitive to at least leave us alone on my special day. I mean. Seriously. You don't need to apologize for your past mistakes. Or to celebrate with us. Or to wish me well. Or be guilty of your sins. But at least you could be sensitive and stay away.

#2 He asked if he could come today. The first available time after the birthday. Not even considering that I could be celebrating with my friends. Yes. I have friends.

Well.

I didn't really plan anything so I decided to reply him today that's it's fine. But then suddenly a friend messaged and asked if he could come over with his wife. To celebrate the Deepavali and my birthday.

I politely declined as I consider the dad.

Then another friend message to asked if he could come over.

I was about to decline again.

But I stopped myself.

Well.

Here I was declining my friends. Considering a person's feelings. That he might feel awkward with other people. That he might think I'm purposely doing this. That he might seriously want to play with the boys.

But that person has no consideration or whatsoever towards me. In fact, he slammed the door on his way out.

So that made me realize. It was a good decision to let my friends come over. They wanted to celebrate with me because it's my birthday. I'm special. I should chose them. And I should not feel guilty about it. Because I deserved it.

Your insensitivity never ceases to amaze me.

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Friends

No, friendship is NOT about

"supporting your friends even 

when you know they're wrong."

That's not friendship. That's being 

an enableer. That's being an accomplice.

Friendship is loving someone

enough to tell them to stop being

a goddamn idio before they ruin

their lives.

And others.

This is dedicated to Lea, Sherwin and all 'our' friends who decided not to side with anyone.

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Birthday

Today is an important milestone for me. It was a hell of a ride last year. 

Hoping for a better year next year.

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Oreo CheeseBalls

For Children's Day, I decided to make Oreo Balls for the kid's potluck party.

Lol! They are supposed to be Tsum Tsum Donald. But.. haha. They looked like Moana's HeiHei!

Never stop learning and never give up!

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Amazonia

We got a free hour of play at Amazonia from ByKidO! Hurray!

The receiving area is quite spacious. There were so many shoe rack. Perhaps it's crowded on weekends? Luckily we came on a weekday.

There was a small shop just as you enter the playground. Pretty strategic as my Paopao cried and wanted one as we were leaving. 😶

We had no idea how big the playground was as there was no clue from outside. We went through this corridor.

And was welcomed by this tiny playground. Paopao had fun with the Lego. But yeah, we have lots at home.

Then there was the restaurant.


The playground itself was a bit disappointing. It was too small. And there really wasn't much that the kids could do.

There was a mini toddler area.

Space Ball wasn't free.

The party rooms were a bit small.

We didn't get to try the restaurant as we were only there for an hour. But they seemed pretty decent.

Event Details

Date	till Dec 31
Location	GREAT WORLD CITY MALL, level 3 Unit #03-08, 1 Kim Seng Promenade, Singapore , 237994.
Official Site	Link
Cost	FREE!

Give me time and space, freedom from rules and structures. I need you to let me ... PLAY!

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Explorer Kids Downtown East

We celebrated Children's Day by availing Fave's promo for ExplorerKids. And as expected, the boys had so much fun while we were dead tired!

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Anger

Well, to be honest it's insulting. It's insulting that he can't even bear take the elevator with me? WTF? Did you forget AGAIN that you are at fault? Why is that you always face me with hostility rather than guilt for cheating on me? WTF is wrong with you? Did the concept of right and wrong totally left you already? I should be angry not you. I should be disgusted not you. You do nothing but scheme while I do everything to move on and take care of the kids. The least that you could do is respect me. Not that you did when you cheated on me. But respect me as a human because I deserve it from you more than anyone in this world.

Get your facts straight. Get your head straight. Think with your brains rather than with your balls.

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Han's

Han's serving size is big enough for sharing. We ended up having take away!

Location	Harbour Front
Order
Pax	3 adults, 2 kids
Total Cost	$30
Official Site	LINK

VERDICT
Note: 1 lower, 5 highest

Service	💛💛💛
Taste	💛💛💛
Cost	💛💛💛
Final Verdict	👍

Food is our common ingredient, a universal experience.

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Just Acia

Just Acia moved on top of our favorite restaurants because of the free flow drinks and ice cream. Paopao's super happy with this treat. Weekend's 50% for kids is also a great deal.

Location	Marina Square
Order
Pax	3 adults, 2 kids
Total Cost	$40
Official Site	LINK

VERDICT
Note: 1 lower, 5 highest

Service	💛💛💛💛💛
Taste	💛💛💛💛
Cost	💛💛💛💛💛
Final Verdict	👍

Food is essential to life, therefore make it good.

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Le Castella Cakes

People queue up for it. Must be good? Lol. 

We got lucky and there was no queue. There's a max of 2 boxes per person. They have 3 flavors: Original, Cheese and Chocolate.

My verdict? It was too eggy. Is there such a term. I could taste the eggs. Too many eggs. haha. I liked Goldilocks Mamon better. It's all hype for me.

Location	Tampines One
Order	Cheese Cake, Original
Pax
Total Cost	~$11.90
Official Site	LINK

VERDICT
Note: 1 lower, 5 highest

Service	💛💛💛
Taste	💛💛💛
Cost	💛💛
Final Verdict	👍

There is no love sincerer than good food.

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