Battle

I don't know why some people continue to add anger to the equation. As if asking for war. Why do you want war with someone who doesn't want one?

Child Maintenance is not a payment for seeing the children. You can see them whether or not you give money. Those are 2 different things.

Parenthood is not about playing lego. Or buying toys.

I don't understand why it's so difficult to move on without anger. It's done. It's been decided. Can't we all move on?

Whether you believe it or not, I hate having to fight. I hate having to hate anybody. I hate not trusting.

Whether you believe it or not, you are given priority. You want to visit the kids, then say so. Early. We have life. We have to make plans. We cannot cancel things just because on the last minute you decide you want to drop by and visit. They are not supposed to be your backup activity on weekends. (With all honestly, I'm not complaining. Don't come. It would be perfect. But because I believe my boys deserve a family, I give you the option to come).

I don't know until when I have to fight this. There's no willingness on the other party. My god. Do not even try to introduce the slut to my kids. Hell with come with me. And this calm me would be gone forever. I can forgive the father as he is the father. But I will never ever forgive the slut.